- Love, Loss and Saying 'Yes' to Life
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Rev Patti Shaffner, Certified Grief Educator, Grief Literacy Advocate
Offerings
Renewal & Community For Grieving Hearts
I have begun a five month intensive training with Francis Weller, author of "The Wild Edge of Sorrow" on leading Grief Rituals and am beginning to offer Rituals in Community. As I am at the very edge of this work I am learning to incorporate my skills in Circle Singing to create sacred space for witnessing our griefs and the myriad ways in which grief presents in our lives.
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Francis teaches the concepts of the Five Gates of Grief:
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1 All that we love we will lose
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2 The places that did not receive love
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3 The sorrows of the world
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4 What we expected but did not receive
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5 Ancestral grief
6 Trauma (an optional addition)​
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The Grief Rituals I am currently leading and developing include:
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Calm/Restorative Practices
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Validation of Your Experience
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Exploring Continuing Bonds
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Community That ‘Gets It’
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Rituals For Honoring Our Grief
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Tools for Moving Forward as Life Unfolds
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Resources (Books, etc)
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Please look for updates as well as reach out if you should want to organize a ritual for your group or organization.
IMPORTANT!
Keep in mind that I am a Peer to Peer Grief Educator and if you are suffering from thoughts of self harm or unable to function in your day to day life without relief, seeking a qualified Therapist who focuses on Grief may be what you need in order to help you get to a more functional position. I will do my best to help steer you in the direction of finding that support if that is what you are in need of.
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